
The recent deaths of Michael Jackson and Farrah Fawcett should give all of us a “wake-up call” that our lives are relatively fragile and it is important to pursue estate planning and updating documents on a timely basis. Although most of you aren’t famous, it is important to remind yourself that you are not immortal.
Although Michael Jackson had executed a will, it had not been updated for some time and may have been out of date. Certainly, many of the beneficiaries and other family members feel they should be in charge and believe that his Will was out of date. This provides an opportunity for them to challenge or question decisions he made as well as those individuals he wished to be included or excluded from his entire estate plan.
Michael Jackson’s will provided for his mother to serve as guardian and Diana Ross to serve as the backup guardian of his children. The guardianship is over the children themselves, not their assets. This does not necessarily mean that the guardian is in charge of the property. That will be discussed next week in part 2.
Legal guardian for a minor continues until the minor turns eighteen in most jurisdictions. Until that time, the child will live under the roof of the guardian, who will attend to the minor’s personal, social, medical, and educational needs. This is what is known as parens patriae, which means that the guardian is standing in the shoes of the parent of the child. This individual will determine who the child socializes with, where he goes to school, what medical attention may be necessary, what time the child goes to sleep at night, who his friends are, etc.
As you can see, the terms of a will are always subject to review by the Court. Besides family, there may be friends and other possibilities to care for your children. The Court will decide who is most suitable to raise your children, and it may also determine under what terms your children will be allowed to spend time with individuals other than the legally appointed guardian.
In many states, the Court will appoint a guardian ad litem, who is a lawyer, social service individual, or agency, to report to the Court about the children’s needs. The guardian ad litem may be instructed to review the lifestyle of the proposed guardian to help determine if this person has the ability, skills, time, and is appropriate to serve as guardian and whether the living arrangements are appropriate. Depending upon the state of residence and age of the children, the Court may also interview them to determine with whom they wish to live. In most situations, the Court will attempt to keep the children together as a family unit, but it is not always appropriate to have them live in the same home with the nominated guardian.
In any event, it’s a good idea to let this serve as your wake-up call to prepare the necessary documents that appoint a guardian for your children, or in some cases, grandchildren. At the very least, the Court will take notice of who is nominated under a document before making a decision, and if it is not contested, then the appointment is routine in most cases. Without a written document though, you are leaving the legal custody of your minor children o the discretion of the Court.
by:
Hyman G. Darling, Esq.