In a traditional adoption, the biological parents must agree to terminate their parental rights in order for the adoption to go forward. That is not the case in a second parent adoption where the parties petition jointly for the adoption of the children.
In 1993, the Supreme Judicial Court of Massachusetts ruled that there is nothing in the Massachusetts Adoption Law that would prevent a non-biological parent from co-adopting his or her partner’s child. That the ruling was made by the highest court in the Commonwealth, and the decision is binding in all counties. Although you may notice some difference in the process from county-to-county or Judge-to-Judge, in general, couples can expect to follow the same substantive procedure.
The adoption process begins with the filing of an adoption petition and supporting paperwork. It is strongly advised that the couple use an attorney to assist them with this adoption process in these cases, as once the adoption petition and the supporting paperwork are filed, a criminal background check on all the adults in the household is required and completed. Additionally, the Court may require an in-home study, wherein the home is evaluated by a social worker to determine the suitability of your family for “the proper rearing of children.” This is conducted by the Department of Children and Families (DCF) formally known as the Department of Social Services (DSS.)
This may seem intrusive, but it is usually required to complete the process. ,Although, there are private agencies that are authorized by the Department of Children and Families to conduct the home studies and may be able to be retained by private payment to complete the home study, it still requires opening your home to inspection. It should be noted that as you may guess, there is often a substantial waiting time before DCF can get into the home.
The parties may seek a waiver of the home study, however, a waiver of the home study is not taken lightly by the Court. You and your partner can obtain information, letters of support, and affidavits attesting to the fact that you and your partner function as a family and will make good parents, but this alone may not be enough to waive the home study. It may seem counterintuitive that a biological parent who joins in the adoption process with the non-biological parent would have to go through a home study. However, the Courts normally follow the adoption process in a traditional fashion.
Your attorney can advise you as to whether or not the procedures or requirements instituted by the Court in the county where you and your family reside could be or should be waived. However, the Courts will grant the waivers within their own discretion and some may not follow the same rationale as others.
Once the petition is filed, the home study is satisfactorily completed, the CORI is returned and all background checks are also satisfactorily completed, the adoption unit in the Court will likely schedule a private hearing before the Court either in the Judge’s chambers or in a closed Court room in order to finalize the adoption.
The finalization of the adoption is generally a happy event where family and friends are invited to take pictures and celebrate the adoption of the child.
A second parent adoption is important because it grants the non-biological parent full legal rights regarding his or her child or children in a same sex relationship. It puts them at the same legal status as the biological parent. The adoption in and of itself does not change the legal relationship between the two parents, but it does give recognition and protection to both parents in the relationship to the children, especially in the event of a dissolution of the relationship, as the child would now be considered the legal child of both the biological and non-biological parent. Additionally, the child is now entitled to the benefits of the non-biological parent, such as health insurance, life insurance, and other lifetime benefits. The child, by law, may inherit upon the death of the non-biological parent as a result of the adoption, and in the absence of proper estate planning on the part of the parent, would inherit under the laws of intestate succession.
In regard to the parental rights of the parties, in the event of dissolution of the relationship, both parties would be entitled to custody and/or visitation with a minor child on its face. Each would be able to seek legal and physical custody as well as an appropriate parenting plan to allow time with the child or children.
If the child that is adopted is not biologically related to either party to the relationship, once the child is adopted by one of you, you still may petition for a second parent adoption. The process is essentially the same. Be wary, however, that many international adoptions do not allow married same-sex couples to adopt a child or for unmarried couples to jointly adopt a child abroad. If the goal is for the parties to complete an international adoption, it may be that one of you would have to adopt the child in the foreign county and then jointly adopt through a second parent adoption here in the United States.
by: Julie A. Dialessi-Lafley, Esq
